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Sunday, 18 April 2010 16:25 No Comments
Hasan Yahya, Ph.D
It is known by research as a global pattern that poverty forces women into sexual slavery as prostitutes. But they may never escape poverty and may well fall victims to AIDS, which is spreading rapidly in Africa and South East Asia.
In India, poor people like most of the world, favor the boys over girls. They perceive the girls as economic liability, because in poor societies most power and wealth falls in the hands of males. Therefore, parents prefer to have boys rather than girls. In addition, customs dictate that parents of the girl offer a dowry to the prospective husband family. Culturally, we may say that in the social structure, families with only boys are better off than families with girls. As consequence, in rural India and China and other Asian countries, there are high rates of sex-selective abortion through clinics.
In Thailand: the other related issue, is the number of prostitutes is mounting, for example, in Thailand alone, there is close to two million prostitutes, which constitutes 8% of the country’s population. And almost half of them are under eighteen years of age. It is reported that 40% of them are infected with the virus that causes AIDS.
Prostitution and sex-slavery presented Thailand as the sex-tourism capital of the world. In some cases parents sell their daughters for others to raise them and later work as agents when girls approach their teenage years. In cities these girls became victims of pimps system to solicit them in bars or performing in sex shows, they fell in dept bondage that keeps them prisoners of the system where no escape.
For girls who managed to survive infancy, gender bias present over-whelming barriers. Generally speaking, in some nations like India and Thailand, parents provide girls with less food, education and medical services than the give boys. In time of drought or other economic crunch families leave girls to die out. I have read once that the invention of soap had served the young and old people to relax their sexual prone practices. And helped men and women to freely practice their urges for sexual operations.
In the Arab culture: Sex in Arab and Muslim countries is a taboo to be even mentioned. Sex is a part of maturity of the male and female to perform a husband-wife responsibilities. In such culture, women as well as men do not believe in having sex outside marriage. Those who had sex with partners are always afraid of getting pregnant. Such an act outside wedlock is prohibited and even punishable by family before court intervention. In many cases, depending on the social environment, women usually pay for that offence, rather than men. Arabic culture is a totally male dominated culture. The father, or the elder brother take the role of defending the family honor by killing the woman while others are witnessing. In most cases if they were convicted, they will feel proud of themselves, in addition, the court will not perceive the killing as a first degree murder, and a token sentence will be made, which is undermining women’s human rights in this case. This is the general fear for most women who are in love with partners outside the family circle.
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Sunday, 18 April 2010 16:04 No Comments
Men! Your woman wants an orgasm – and though she may not want it each time you have sex, she certainly isn’t going to be too happy if sex is limited to you getting off and then ignoring her needs. The best way to keep her happy is to make sure she’s had her pleasure before you come, and there are several sexual positions which are more likely to make this happen.
So, without further ado, here’s our suggested list of positions that will let her get the pleasure she craves, while making sure you don’t miss out.
First of all, if you haven’t tried the woman on top position, then check it out! Many women love being uppermost when it comes to making love – it’s a position that allows them to move in the way that gives them the greatest pleasure, whether that’s through clitoral stimulation or G spot stimulation. She can move around much more in this position, and because she’s in control of her movements, she’s likely to get some orgasmic satisfaction. She can either press her clitoris against the shaft of your penis, rub it against your body, or lean back or forwards so that her G spot gets the pressure it needs to give her pleasure. If you can last long enough, this is the position that gives her the greatest chance of reaching orgasm during intercourse.
If she wants to increase the sensation in her vagina, she can use her PC muscles to squeeze your penis: that will increase your pleasure, and it will certainly increase the pressure on her G spot – and most likely increase the chances of her ejaculating when she reaches orgasm. (That’s the subject of another article – but basically, if her G spot is stimulated for long enough, and she’s in the right frame of mind, then when she reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands around her urethra will squirt out during her orgasmic contractions.)
And one other advantage of woman on top is that you can see her breasts, and caress them as she moves on top of you. Of course, if she’s facing away from you, then you have the pleasure of watching her buttocks as she moves. But a lot of men find this position uncomfortable, as it bends the penis too much.
And what next? Well, the good ol’ missionary. But before you groan, think again. Many women love missionary position sex, because it allows for those deep moments of intimacy and connection that women adore. And men like them too – though maybe not as much or as often as women! But sex in the man on top position, with her legs bent upwards, her knees nearer her chest, allows for deep penetration and lots of loving feeling. And if you have a penis that curves upwards when it’s erect, as many do, then the man on top variations will allow your penis to stimulate her G spot as you make love. Combine this with a little clitoral play (perhaps by placing a vibrator between you both as you make love) and you have the best of all possible worlds for her!
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Sunday, 18 April 2010 16:03 No Comments
Sex is a wonderful thing. I haven’t met a person yet who would dispute this. Everybody loves sex, whether they like talking about it openly or not. One of the reasons you’re reading this is because you enjoy sex and you would like to enjoy it more and have your partner enjoy it more. For all you males reading this, wouldn’t you like to be known around town as the greatest fuck of all time? Or husbands and men in steady relationship wouldn’t you like your woman to be amazed at your new found sexual knowledge and have her beg you for more sex? Sex can be the greatest pleasure a person can ever experience or a major disappointment.
Surveys have shown that 75% of women fake orgasm every time, 15% faked it most of the time and about 9.5% said they occasionally faked it. Which leaves about 0.5% who said they never faked it. I know most of you men out there will find this hard to believe, but it’s true. I’m a woman, I know.
Women, by faking orgasms, are missing out on one of the most pleasurable experiences imaginable but so are their partners. Both the male and females sexual pleasure increases to unbelievable new heights once you know how to bring a woman to an orgasm every time. Your woman will want you as never before, she will never want or need another man. And girls, if you want to have better sex, then teach your man what I am about to tell you.
Most men I have met were anxious to learn how to satisfy women during sex. Each man I interviewed I asked ‘What do you think makes a woman orgasm most during intercourse?’ Most responses were along the lines of:
‘Just putting my penis inside her gets her excited’ – It may get your partner excited but it is not enough – no where near enough.
‘She just loves me ramming her hard’ – This is so far from the truth it is ridiculous!
‘Fucking her fast’ – Wrong!
It is generally easy for men to become sexually aroused because his sexual organs are on the outside of the body and are easily stimulated. Men that are unfit mentally or physically can sometimes take longer to arouse, as do men that are bored with their partners. Do you know the main reason men get bored with their partners sexually? Could it be that the woman herself is bored because she is not getting sexual pleasure and therefore doesn’t seem interested in sex as much. Sex would get boring if the pleasure is all one sided, don’t you think guys? Imagine having sex every few days and never reaching an orgasm. Doesn’t sound like much fun does it?
Some men can get a woman worked into a sexual frenzy during foreplay, but then when it comes to intercourse, the momentum doesn’t continue and in most cases, both the man and woman don’t know what is wrong. Then the woman finally pretends to have an orgasm because she wants the whole event to be over to end the boredom and/or pain. If a man doesn’t know how to handle intercourse properly the woman will become bored and unsatisfied in the relationship, and look for other options. Most women will tell their men everything is great – just to keep them feeling like a man. The men usually are unsuspecting that there is a problem.
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Saturday, 17 April 2010 09:45 No Comments
I was sitting in Denny’s unwinding after the last day of the Bar Exam. Jerry Jones and I had finished earlier and we were dealing with the uncertainty of waiting for the results. I am Tim Sharp. I was finally out of law school and on my way. I hoped.
Jerry interrupted my revelry. “Tim, that was tough. But at least its over. I need a favor.”
“What kind of favor?”
“My sister has this friend I’m stuck on and I can’t get her interested in anything but coffee. She thinks of me as a brother because of my sister, Melissa. You had a friend, the Master Hypnotist. Do you think you could give me his number? I want his help.”
Jerry was my best friend in Law School. I had never told him I was the Master Hypnotist.
“Jerry, the Master Hypnotist was me. What do you want me to do?”
“Could you hypnotize Melissa’s friend and get her to go out with me?”
“What does Melissa say about all that?”
“I’ve talked to her and she says she can’t make Gail go out with me if she doesn’t want to.”
“Would Melissa let me hypnotize her?”
“I think so. She saw the Master Hypnotist perform and told me that she was turned on by the show. What would that do?”
“I could use Melissa to get to Gail. Trust me.”
“When can you do it?”
“I haven’t got a job yet, so lets do it as soon as possible. Invite Melissa and me over to your apartment at the same time.”
“I’ll call you tonight.”
That evening Jerry called me. I was going to go trolling and had forgot all about the conversation. “Tim, I worked it out. Can you come over tomorrow night at ten o’clock? Melissa will be here.”
“Okay, Jerry, I’ll be there.”
I had known Melissa for several years. She was really cute. About five feet four with a Meg Ryan look. She thought of me as a brother and I never could go out with her. I was going to solve my problem too. I thought she was darling and I wanted to have her. I had been concentrating on getting through law school and had let my love life slide. Now, I had some time and lots of pent up need.
Jerry lived in a very upscale neighborhood. His family was very well off. I made a point of getting to his apartment a half hour early. I called first to make sure Jerry would be there and I wouldn’t have any surprises. My plan was to gain control of Jerry first and then go from there.
Jerry greeted me at the door. “Hi Tim. Why did you want to come early?”
“I want to hypnotize you so I can use you as an illustration of how enjoyable hypnosis is. You remember that that’s how I did it at the show.”
“Sure, okay. What do I have to do? Couldn’t I fake it?”
“Jerry, it is impossible to fake being really hypnotized. You will enjoy it. Sit over there.” I pointed to a sofa that was in the next room. I wanted to move fast before he thought too much about it.
“Watch my finger, as it gets closer to your nose you will feel yourself going into a deep trance.” Jerry had seen me successfully hypnotize several people and he was well conditioned. I used the relaxation drill for several minutes and then woke him.
“Jerry, when I count to three you will waken from a very deep trance feeling terrific. When I tell you to sleep, you will go into an even deeper trance.” I counted to three.
Jerry woke with a start. He had been very limp. “What happened, was I hypnotized?”
He was clearly a good subject. Now if Melissa was as good. I put Jerry back and forth several times just to deepen his trance and to keep myself occupied until Melissa arrived. Jerry got very confused about time passing without his knowing it. When the doorbell rang he was very well conditioned. I told him that he would do everything I asked without thinking about it and without being in a trance. I told him that he would go into his deepest trance whenever I snapped my fingers.
“Jerry let Melissa in and have her sit next to me.” He went to the door and brought Melissa in. She really looked like Meg Ryan.
“Hi Tim, how are you?”
“I’m fine, Meg.” She laughed. I had teased her about her resemblance many times.
Jerry sat her next to me. She turned to me and gave me her dazzling smile. “Jerry tells me that you were really Master Hypnotist. Really?”
Great start. “I plead guilty. Why do you point it out?” I listened to myself. I sounded like a lawyer in a courtroom. Melissa didn’t seem to notice.
“I want to lose five pounds and I understand hypnosis is wonderful for that.”
I wasn’t sure where the five pounds were supposed to come from, but that was her problem. “Sure, that is easy. I’ll just condition you to eat a little less. When do you want to do this?”
Obviously, I was hoping she would say now. She didn’t disappoint me. “Can we do it now?”
Oh yes. “Certainly. Have you ever been hypnotized before?”
“I think so. I was at a party and I think I was hypnotized and I felt like I was going under when you were the Master Hypnotist.”
She was going to be very easy. “Close your eyes and imagine you are floating. Your whole body is getting very limp as you float. You are floating into a deep, wonderful trance. Your trance is wonderful and very deep. Your body feels warm, comfortable and totally limp. You cannot move any muscle unless I tell you.”
I snapped my fingers and Jerry went completely limp in his chair. Melissa was already completely limp. “Melissa, how do you feel?”
“I feel warm and wonderful.”
I whispered in her ear. “You are feeling very aroused. Your vagina is very wet. Your breasts are very sensitive. My voice turns you on more than you have ever felt. Are you a virgin?”
She answered softly, “no.”
My nose was telling me that I was being successful in arousing her.
