Posts Tagged ‘relationship’
Monday, 19 April 2010 20:18 No Comments
Before I dive right into this article, I should warn you. What you are about to read is a heavy combination of personal experience, astute observation, and unrelenting research. This list was more or less something of a personal checklist of mine to use when evaluating a potential new female prospect in my life and it has been extremely good and accurate for my friends and I. What I am trying to say is that if you read this, and notice that your girlfriend or wife rates unfavorably in any category, you might start developing a case of paranoia that would ultimately accelerate the end of your relationship. Or worse yet, actually cause the relationship fail when she is just a little weak in one or two categories.
The way to use this list is as follows: Go through and give each section a score of 1 to 10, 1 being if she is really weak in the category, 10 being if she is really strong in the category. At the end add up your score—anything higher than a 72 and you should feel particularly safe that your girl won’t cheat on you. 54-72 means that she could be thinking about it but probably will not unless the circumstances are extreme, and anything lower than that probably means you have to be careful and evaluate your situation. Anything below a 27 and she has probably already cheated on you a few times. Without further ado, here are the 9 Ways to Tell if A Girl Will Cheat on You. You’ve been warned
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Monday, 19 April 2010 20:16 No Comments
After a relationship crumbles sooner than you would like, you might find yourself thinking and missing your ex like crazy. Making your ex miss you and winning your ex back does not need to be complicated, but it does require you to have the right frame of mind. Instead of thinking about ‘wanting them back‘ or how to ‘win them over‘, consider thinking they already miss you. They really DO want you back. They really just want to test you to see how you really feel about them. Remember, adopt empowering thinking and in time they will ‘truly’ miss you.
Here are the 4 easy steps you need to follow:
Step 1:
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. The first easy way to make your ex miss you is to disappear completely. They will definitely miss you, even if it’s only out of curiosity.
Step 2:
If disappearing is out of the question, make yourself scarce instead. Your ex will probably expect you to wallow around depressed over them, so you need to become elusive. Get active. Go out a lot. Be seen everywhere having fun or at least looking like you are fine with the break up. You don’t need to start dating people, although you could if you really want. Just don’t expect making your ex jealous will automatically make them come back to you.
Step 3:
By this stage, the message you want your ex to have is you are no longer accessible to them. They broke up with you so they are no longer entitled to all your attention and energy. However, NEVER appear spiteful, rude or vindictive. You still want to show your ex you care about them. Your actions have nothing to do with wanting them back or wanting to make them jealous.
Step 4:
The few times you do get to talk to your ex, make sure you appear upbeat and happy to see them. This shouldn’t be hard. Just think about how much you miss seeing and talking to them. They will see you still care about them and if they start looking for you, this means you’ve succeeded in making them miss you!
So now that your ex is probably missing you like crazy, wondering where you are, what you could be doing, why you’re having so much fun without them. How do you get them back without accidentally saying or doing the wrong things that could push them further away?
Once your ex is missing you, there are certain things you can say that will make them fall in love with you again. They will think of you as a prospective partner and this will happen whether they have someone new or not. Head to Win My Ex Back for more tips and adivce.
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Monday, 19 April 2010 20:15 No Comments
A man can easily learn how to be a good boyfriend. All it takes is a little bit of practice and determination to do it. Willingness is the key for any man to learn how to be a good boyfriend. Unfortunately not all men are willing to study and do what it takes to be a good boyfriend.
Most men foolishly adopt a ‘love me or leave me’ attitude wherein they are too stubborn to admit their shortcomings. These are usually the type of men that bank on the frailty of most women, the kind of women who would rather die than be left alone without a man.
However, men of this character must be living in the dark ages, as many women today would not tolerate this type of behavior. The modern woman of today is more discerning. Any man who would want to be in a relationship with her would certainly have to brush up on how to be a good boyfriend in order to keep her interested.
Fortunately there are still a lot of men who believe in giving their best in a relationship. These men take the initiative in learning how to be a good boyfriend to their significant other. And in the end reap the rewards of their labor with a loving and satisfying relationship.
Learning How to be a Good Boyfriend
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Monday, 19 April 2010 20:14 No Comments
How to keep a man interested is by being independent. It is a comment that I get a lot from men. How to keep a man interested? What exactly do they mean by that?
How to keep a man interested is to be Independant
They like a woman that they haven’t completely conquered yet.
Yes, there needs to be closeness and intimacy for a solid relationship. However, the closeness has to evolve in steps. Men get scared easily when it comes to emotions. And some women are in a hurry to share or “load” their emotions. It gives them a fake feeling of closeness.
How to keep a man interested is about slowly divulging your deep personal information about yourself. If you have a troubled pass, if you have been abused, if you had some difficult experience with your ex, or other intense and difficult situations, wait a few months before sharing.
Fill your bank account of love; the currency represented is all the dates and the time that you have spent together. You have laughed, teased each other, and shared happy experiences. Build more of those.
Later, you will have enough to make withdrawals. The withdrawals represent the tough times, the trials, and both of your emotional baggage.
It is important also to be intellectually independent on how to keep a man interested. You need to have your own opinions on situations and on people. It is better to be keen on opinions. And the more you are sharing those, the more harmonious the relationship is.
On the other hand, don’t be afraid to express your contrasting opinions. He will respect for it and even more if you are able to defend them with common sense arguments.
It shows that you love yourself and respect yourself enough to be able to affirm who you are. If you respect yourself, he will too. That is how to keep a man interested. If he doesn’t, you know what to do; you dump him.
How to keep a man interested: Have your own hobbies, passions, friends and social life
I am not suggesting here to be out all the time. Spend some time away from him once in a while. Don’t share everything, everywhere.
By having your own life and your own time, your man will compete for your attention. This keeps him at the tip of his toes.
How to keep a man interested: Acknowledge what he does for you. Not what you would like him to do for you. Or how you would like himto be. Men need to be admired and appreciated for what they accomplish. It could be as ordinary as driving you to work or paying you a vacation.
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Sunday, 18 April 2010 16:47 No Comments
I stood in the shower, the hot water running off my naked body as I thought of last night. My hand strayed down between my thighs, finding my pussy already wet, not from the shower, but the thought of lasts night encounter with Michael. It was everything that I had thought it could be. My fingers lightly rubbed my clit, still swollen from last night and the feelings began to come back to me. I had had sex with others, mostly my own age, but I had never made love like I did last night. And to someone so much older then I am! The others had never turned out well. It was usually a quick encounter, with my partners wanting to satisfy their lusts first and then too tired or uninterested to make sure that mine had also been satisfied. I had tried to keep them interested, using my mouth to bring them back to erection, but once they felt my sweet lips wrapped around their cocks, it only made them more excited to finally dump their cum on my face, refusing to swallow anyone’s cum.
It had begun about a three months ago. It was early April in sunny, Southern California. I am a senior at a large, private university close to the ocean. I’m 24, 5’3″, 125 pounds, shoulder length hair and dark eyes. And yes, I am also Latina. I spent a couple of years after high school trying to find myself. When that did not succeed, I went back to school, hoping to find something that would interest me. I lived in Texas but the best business school I could get into was in Southern California and the weather was certainly better then Texas. I have been studying business and with only two months before graduation I was getting anxious about a job. The economy still sucks and with my student loans totaling over $50,000 I was getting desperate. I had done most of the usual things to get a job and I was now doing the “job circuit”. That was the long list of “business functions” that the school sponsored to put together the students and the business leaders in the area.
My love life and sex life, not necessarily mutually exclusive was about as good as my job prospects. It’s not that I am a virgin, having slept with a number of men or boys, depending on how you look at them, it’s just that all of my relationships have been less then perfect. It seemed that I have a perchance of picking losers or they pick me, not sure which. All of the men in my life are my own age, not unusual, but they all lacked any imagination or future. An intelligent conversation with them would be “what position would you like to be fucked in, missionary or doggy style”. For the last four months I had completely given up on men, devoting all of my time to graduating and finding a job. Maybe a job would give me a new list of candidates to date with better qualifications.
I was getting ready for the second dinner function this week. It never hurt to look good and I could do that very well. I dressed in a black skirt, not too short, but it did cling to my ass, one of my finer attributes. I wore a white, silk blouse, button down, with the top two buttons undone. While my breasts were not exceedingly large, they did afford an ample display of cleavage. A pair of moderately high heels accented my legs. Silk bra and thong panties, while not overtly displayed gave me that inner sexy feeling. It felt like summer coming already, so I did not grab a coat, even though the temperature in Southern California dropped 15 degrees at night and headed out to the campus hall for the dinner. If nothing else, at least I would get a good meal out of it and not have to put up with the pawing of some immature boy hoping to get lucky, feeling that I should put out to pay for the dinner.
